Comments on: Causes of Divorce http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/ Sat, 10 Mar 2012 09:31:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Tej http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-502 Tej Thu, 08 Mar 2012 16:00:12 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-502 Marriage is sacred and it is designed by God to us. Marriage is sacred and it is designed by God to us.

]]> By: JennPa http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-501 JennPa Sun, 26 Feb 2012 09:30:50 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-501 I got <a href="http://www.thailand-lawyer.com/divorce-faqs.html" rel="nofollow">divorced in Thailand</a> last year and possibly could have prevented it if my ex-husband and I had not been tempted by number two on this list. I can definitely say that booze hurt my marriage very much. We were so excited about moving to Bangkok together. The move actually brought us closer, but we were not ready for the reckless lifestyle that we chose once here. We would go out, planning to party together and with our friends in Bangkok, and we would return home at each other’s throats and vocalizing all of our pent up emotions. Number 2 on this list ruined my marriage and many others…excessive alcohol consumption should not be mixed with marriage. Since my divorce, I no longer mix cocktails with love, affection, and romance. Thanks for this post. I got divorced in Thailand last year and possibly could have prevented it if my ex-husband and I had not been tempted by number two on this list. I can definitely say that booze hurt my marriage very much. We were so excited about moving to Bangkok together. The move actually brought us closer, but we were not ready for the reckless lifestyle that we chose once here. We would go out, planning to party together and with our friends in Bangkok, and we would return home at each other’s throats and vocalizing all of our pent up emotions. Number 2 on this list ruined my marriage and many others…excessive alcohol consumption should not be mixed with marriage. Since my divorce, I no longer mix cocktails with love, affection, and romance. Thanks for this post.

]]> By: Yacob Ghale http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-500 Yacob Ghale Tue, 21 Feb 2012 03:27:35 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-500 hi it is good for my thesis research especially in the churches of dhading i hope that it will for my proper studies . thankyou hi it is good for my thesis research especially in the churches of dhading
i hope that it will for my proper studies . thankyou

]]> By: Yacob Ghale http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-499 Yacob Ghale Tue, 21 Feb 2012 03:25:26 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-499 hi this is me yacob who is writing thesis on the topic of divorce, especially IMMATURE ATTITUDE - "If this doesn't work out, we can just get a divorce." This attitude is incredibly naive. It suggests that there is no commitment, no purpose to the marriage other than one's own gratification. A marriage has to be more than other relationships. It needs a level of commitment that you're unwilling to give to any other human on this planet. A marriage needs a burning desire to work through any problem, overcome any obstacle, and defeat any trial. If you're hoping that your marriage will be eternal bliss, you are sadly mistaken. All marriages have struggles, and it is the struggles that bind us closer together, propel us beyond our own selves, forces us to reevaluate our priorities, and focuses us on the true riches in life. Without these struggles you are only a two dimensional personality with no depth and little understanding of what a deep relationship really is. Learn to stick things out. Difficulties are bound to come. You'll undoubtedly get hurt at some point or another...but if you have not the strength to overcome it, you'll never experience the incredible joy that comes from a deep, lasting relationship. Look, you will always be hurt the most by people that you love the most. That is just the way it is. If you love the person you are married to, then he or she will undoubtedly hurt you at some point. Stick it out. Whether the storms so that you may find the joy and happiness you claim you seek. People who bounce from marriage to marriage never really understand this. They use divorce as an escape because they can't handle difficulties. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/660107 in the church of dhading hi this is me yacob who is writing thesis on the topic of divorce, especially IMMATURE ATTITUDE – “If this doesn’t work out, we can just get a divorce.”

This attitude is incredibly naive. It suggests that there is no commitment, no purpose to the marriage other than one’s own gratification. A marriage has to be more than other relationships. It needs a level of commitment that you’re unwilling to give to any other human on this planet.

A marriage needs a burning desire to work through any problem, overcome any obstacle, and defeat any trial. If you’re hoping that your marriage will be eternal bliss, you are sadly mistaken. All marriages have struggles, and it is the struggles that bind us closer together, propel us beyond our own selves, forces us to reevaluate our priorities, and focuses us on the true riches in life.

Without these struggles you are only a two dimensional personality with no depth and little understanding of what a deep relationship really is. Learn to stick things out. Difficulties are bound to come. You’ll undoubtedly get hurt at some point or another…but if you have not the strength to overcome it, you’ll never experience the incredible joy that comes from a deep, lasting relationship.

Look, you will always be hurt the most by people that you love the most. That is just the way it is. If you love the person you are married to, then he or she will undoubtedly hurt you at some point. Stick it out. Whether the storms so that you may find the joy and happiness you claim you seek.

People who bounce from marriage to marriage never really understand this. They use divorce as an escape because they can’t handle difficulties.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/660107
in the church of dhading

]]> By: Cybervang http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-471 Cybervang Tue, 01 Nov 2011 18:43:10 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-471 Marriage is an illusion. A temporary solution to a fantasy of sexual convenience and security. Once you have a child with them and complete what mother nature intended, they are bored of you. Almost anything you say or do can and will annoy them. Eventually it’s over and both move on to a new greener pasture with new things to eat and reproduce. Darwin’s Theory holds true. Marriage is an illusion. A temporary solution to a fantasy of sexual convenience and security. Once you have a child with them and complete what mother nature intended, they are bored of you. Almost anything you say or do can and will annoy them. Eventually it’s over and both move on to a new greener pasture with new things to eat and reproduce.

Darwin’s Theory holds true.

]]> By: amber http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-450 amber Wed, 28 Sep 2011 14:22:43 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-450 miscommunication! miscommunication!

]]> By: Modern Man http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-423 Modern Man Thu, 21 Jul 2011 21:22:25 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-423 The information on this page is highly old-fashioned as if the author has lived in a cave since those guys have written, developed and changed the words of Bible. My message for him/her isto wake up and look around yourself. Live with reality. The information on this page is highly old-fashioned as if the author has lived in a cave since those guys have written, developed and changed the words of Bible.

My message for him/her isto wake up and look around yourself. Live with reality.

]]> By: Apothecary http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-368 Apothecary Mon, 06 Jun 2011 14:54:04 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-368 It maybe nit picking. The relevance of priority order of marriage failures would have been better put forth not by a loose connection to a Bible reference but, by statistics and hard facts. There's just a severe lacking of credibility and cohesion within this article. As illustrated by, "Nevertheless, in general the following causes of divorce are mentioned more often than others. They are: poor communication, financial problems, a lack of commitment to the marriage, differences in culture, sexual or emotional abuse and a lack of responsibilities" Fallowed only by the elaboration of "financial" problems and commitment to the marriage. It then lists 3 seperate points that, "Second is alcohol. There is a popular sign that reads: Alcohol Destroys Internally, Externally, and Eternally." Great! there is a sign somewhere that has a catchphrase on it but, let's forget the Bible verse that reads Psalm 104:14-15 states that God gives wine “that makes glad the heart of men." of course there are more than just that and there are more in the Bible that shun it. The point being is it's not a great source of information when making a point. There's God's word saying one thing in a positive way 15 times about drinking and another about the bad 75 times in the same book. I'm just saying if that's an authority on how to live then it needs to be clear in what it says and have credibility behind what is written. A sign is nothing more than a sign. The third point "Both those who regard sex as being acceptable outside of marriage, as well as those who think of sex as dirty and wrong within marriage, are equally guilty of maintaining attitudes which are destined to cause serious trouble to any family relationship" here again is there any statistics that show avid religious practisioners i.e. the one's who praise their practises so much that they reguard sex as dirty as having more failed marriages than those who don't. Is there proof that polyamorous relationships fail more often then monogamious? It's an opinion that to you this is why it fails. I would argue this is where immaturity (which was one of the points touched on loosely and pertained to age as opposed to actual mental maturity) plays in. If two mature people get together and are agreeable to the extent that no sex or sex outside of marriage is okay then those two people are probably actually okay with it. Anyway, just mainly trying to share sequitor view vs a non sequitor one. It maybe nit picking. The relevance of priority order of marriage failures would have been better put forth not by a loose connection to a Bible reference but, by statistics and hard facts. There’s just a severe lacking of credibility and cohesion within this article.
As illustrated by, “Nevertheless, in general the following causes of divorce are mentioned more often than others. They are: poor communication, financial problems, a lack of commitment to the marriage, differences in culture, sexual or emotional abuse and a lack of responsibilities”
Fallowed only by the elaboration of “financial” problems and commitment to the marriage. It then lists 3 seperate points that, “Second is alcohol. There is a popular sign that reads: Alcohol Destroys Internally, Externally, and Eternally.”

Great! there is a sign somewhere that has a catchphrase on it but, let’s forget the Bible verse that reads Psalm 104:14-15 states that God gives wine “that makes glad the heart of men.” of course there are more than just that and there are more in the Bible that shun it. The point being is it’s not a great source of information when making a point. There’s God’s word saying one thing in a positive way 15 times about drinking and another about the bad 75 times in the same book. I’m just saying if that’s an authority on how to live then it needs to be clear in what it says and have credibility behind what is written. A sign is nothing more than a sign.

The third point “Both those who regard sex as being acceptable outside of marriage, as well as those who think of sex as dirty and wrong within marriage, are equally guilty of maintaining attitudes which are destined to cause serious trouble to any family relationship” here again is there any statistics that show avid religious practisioners i.e. the one’s who praise their practises so much that they reguard sex as dirty as having more failed marriages than those who don’t. Is there proof that polyamorous relationships fail more often then monogamious? It’s an opinion that to you this is why it fails. I would argue this is where immaturity (which was one of the points touched on loosely and pertained to age as opposed to actual mental maturity) plays in. If two mature people get together and are agreeable to the extent that no sex or sex outside of marriage is okay then those two people are probably actually okay with it.

Anyway, just mainly trying to share sequitor view vs a non sequitor one.

]]> By: alexis http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-296 alexis Fri, 25 Feb 2011 18:03:42 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-296 i think that love is a waste of time. i think that love is a waste of time.

]]> By: Will http://marriage101.org/causes-of-divorce/comment-page-1/#comment-291 Will Fri, 11 Feb 2011 05:28:20 +0000 http://marriage101.org/?p=24#comment-291 These comments are two years old, is anyone out there? These comments are two years old, is anyone out there?

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